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20-10-2021 09:38 PM - edited 20-10-2021 09:39 PM
20-10-2021 09:38 PM - edited 20-10-2021 09:39 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Hello @BPDSurvivor thank you, I had a good day. Submitted a Tafe assessment ✔️ ticked off some items at work ✔️ just had haircut and colour (sorry to "brag") I had four inches off the length! Was so ferol, I hadn't realised! Feels thicker and healthier now. I am excited for when you have yours. You must keep me in the loop 😃
I'm sorry you're still in iso, a bike ride in the court yard sounds lovely. Good on you for doing something nice for yourself ✔️❣️
Dear @Shaz51 that sounds like a plan hun, it would be nice for you and dear Mr Shaz.
Gosh it's hard isn't it?!
I had a big breakthrough tonight, I must share cause it's huuuge. My boy hasn't been very good of late. Something has been weighing very heavy on his mind. Finally tonight he confided in me. God bless him. I love him so much. Anyhoo, might go and shut down my mind so will say goodnight. Take care 💕
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21-10-2021 07:26 AM
21-10-2021 07:26 AM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
@Shaz51. have been reading the news about the wild weather, and thinking of you (and @Determined). Sounds like you didn't get the worst of it, but wild enough?
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21-10-2021 08:27 AM
21-10-2021 08:27 AM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Thanks @Smc
Thinking of you also @Shaz51
We have had wild weather to the north south and west of us but so far nothing damaging locally despite plenty of hail.
I still get really anxious around storms after being caught in a really bad storm in the car a 3-4 years ago. (Hail in that one wrote the car off) . So thankful that we have missed the worst of this lot so far.
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21-10-2021 01:54 PM
21-10-2021 01:54 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Regarding respite mum @Shaz51 , it could be someone taking her out for a walk or coffee of something. It's rest for you that you need. There's only so much you can keep doing. You have a lot on your plate.
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21-10-2021 06:56 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
@Shaz51 wrote:mum loves routine and does not handle change too good anymore
so this afternoon she is happy watching her tv shows and having a cuppa
very hot and stormy outside , soo being inside is the best
I am thinking that making a room for her so she does not have to use the steps is affecting her and making her anxious
Hello lovely @Shaz51
I cannot Believe that there are 51 people with the name shaz 🙃
can you take her there for short spells with a special song 🎵 playing. Have a look at photos. A magazine. Hand massage. Something that she loves. Different every time like a special surprise. Does she have a favourite colour.. see if you can get that colour serviette. So that the room represents a warm welcome for her.
a nice little pot plant or a vase with a few flowers from the garden
Special Night of the week have lunch or takeaway in her special room letting her know that you are sharing in her room.
I realise more time. Keep it simple.
Not hard work for you. 😍💜💕
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10-11-2021 09:21 PM
10-11-2021 09:21 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Hearing that you are a bit weary at the moment (more so than usual)
Thinking of you 🙏
You do a lot for Mr Shaz and Mum on too of looking after yourself. I admire your strength.
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11-11-2021 11:13 AM
11-11-2021 11:13 AM
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Ha ha no my @Sophia1
I was 51years old when I first came onto the forum xx
Thank you @Determined , yes my cousin rang this morning And some of the family are worried about
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14-11-2021 06:02 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
hello @Determined , @Sophia1 , @BPDSurvivor , @Smc , @Anastasia , @Faith-and-Hope , @BlueBay , @oceangirl , @Adge , @Emelia8 , @Appleblossom , @Jacques , @Scoo , @Former-Member , @Snowie , @Peri , @Former-Member , @Rhye , @cloudcore , @Jynx
ohhhhhhh mum is in her new room downstairs and I have been up and down all day checking on her and did not sleep well last night
mr shaz said i will wear myself out , and i amm sooo tired already and this is only the first day
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14-11-2021 06:12 PM
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14-11-2021 06:20 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
I'm sure you will both settle in over the following days @Shaz51 . Change is never easy for older people, especially when dementia is setting in. And no doubt you are worrying more than you need to. Totally understand you feeling you need to keep checking on her, but she will be okay. Its probably you that needs the greater care right now. You do way too much my sweet friend.
Emelia