Hi - I understand your feelings here... I have been vilified by my family to the point where I am being forced to go it alone without my parents or sister. My sister sounds like yours a bit - despite any conflict I still send a message with best wishes which is ignored.
It was only last night going through our message history that I hear from her only when she wants something (borrow money, work advice etc).
As things have blown apart this year, if it's any consolation, after I pretty much went to pieces as I learned just how much I am not wanted... I've been slowly getting back on my feet and you know what? Without the constant fear and anxiety about the next thing I'll be judged for, or the next surprise "email bomb" out nowhere attacking me, I've started getting a life of my own. 49 years old and only now have I started to get "out from under" the control and hurt. It takes time but you might find all sorts of good stuff in you and your life, waiting to be discovered if you can free yourself from worrying about their ignorance. Best of luck! 💚✌️
