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21-06-2017 11:03 AM
21-06-2017 11:03 AM
Re: Checking In: Let us know how you're doing
helllloooooo @Former-Member
great to hear from you
Been trying with varying degrees of success to step back being a carer.-- how is that going xxx
yes I am trying to get back into the gardens here , my mum and MIL both have green thumbs so they are happy for me , but sometimes too busy for self care sometimes , trying to find he right balance but i think i am getting there
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21-06-2017 11:09 AM
21-06-2017 11:09 AM
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Ohhhh @quietscreams, that is wonderful news
and a happy birthday to your daughter , hope she has a lovely day xoxo
Hope she likes the cake i made
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21-06-2017 11:14 AM
21-06-2017 11:14 AM
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So pleased to hear all the positivity ......
Bless you, and I hope your daughter has a wonderful birthday ......
💐💜💕
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21-06-2017 11:16 AM
21-06-2017 11:16 AM
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I posted some herb garden pics on Far and Away thread last night if you're interested ..... I can tag you from there if you like.
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21-06-2017 11:17 AM
21-06-2017 11:17 AM
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I hope you're okay. Hang in there.
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21-06-2017 11:22 AM
21-06-2017 11:22 AM
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So good to hear other working within their diagnosis and positives emerging. Really helps to hear it.
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21-06-2017 11:35 AM
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21-06-2017 01:07 PM
21-06-2017 01:07 PM
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It's been so hard sitting through 8 years of everyone around us offer accolades to WH over his "success" when it was undoing the rest of us at home ..... and feeding the invisible "monster" ...... argh ...... !!
While WH still has no understanding that his e.d. is an e.d. and his daily regimen is sinking our boat too, we can't even approach that one either .....
Hoping the psych has some answers for me this afternoon. It just feels like we are sitting ducks. My D3 is falling down with psychosomatic illness again. She will be at another pdoc before long if we don't achieve a rescue. I hope it doesn't ale much longer for the full crisis to become apparent.
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22-06-2017 08:34 AM
22-06-2017 08:34 AM
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She finally talks about it now. I never thought I would see the day.
Food in this house is a major frustration of mine. I can't just cook and everyone eats. It's controlling all of us, this disorder. But to talk about in in a normal way, helps so much. It's a huge difference to when I look back.
I hope you get to that stage sooner than later. Honestly, we can even laugh about it with her now! And laughter is the best medicine. It helps in the hardest of situations. It has to be at a time when the person is laughing with you though and it's not mean at all.
To be able to laugh at oneself is a link to accepting oneself. Accepting oneself is a link to loving oneself.
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22-06-2017 09:26 AM
22-06-2017 09:26 AM
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@quietscreams ..... it is soooo good to hear from someone on the other side of the Abyss of No Insight ..... and hear about what life can be like ..... somewhere in my mind I know we will be there one day. I hope it's not much further away. I have given up swimming now that S2's pdoc is involved and we have a part-diagnosis at least .... trusting that the rest will come out progressively now .... so I am just floating on this tide .... resting ....
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