Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

[Shaz51]

hope you MIL is ok @Determined

and sending you hugs

[Determined]

When she left in the ambulance this morning I was convinced she would not be coming home @Shaz51. 

She did have considerably more color this afternoon though so hoping I am wrong. 

Drs  may be right in the diagnosis of the symptoms but the underlying cause is not going away so I feel they are giving false hope 😐

[Former-Member]

@Determined

Walking each other home is so very difficult at times ...

Keeping a special place in prayers for you all.

[Sophie1]

@Determined Sounds like a super stressful time - take care of yourself and find a few moments to nurture yourself whatever that means for you x

[Smc]

@Determined,

[Determined]

Went to visit MIL late this ave.

She is looking better and was out of bed  which is a relief.   Aparently she is being moved from acute care to general ward tonight or tomorrow. 

S3 was pleased to see her. He has been constantly asking after her yesterday and today.  This afternoon he was at her table working on activities that they do together because he was missing her... sweet but 😥

[Determined]

Darling went to visit mum in law this afternoon.

Mum hopeful she can come home tomorrow.   Dr told darling this afternoon that it is only being considered as we are so close and so willing to help out. 

She is doing so much better but still tires so quickly. 

[Former-Member]

@Determined

Thinking especially of you.

[Determined]

Thanks @Former-Member, much appreciated.   More adulting duties coming up 😩

I have to say though in this instance (assisting mum and dad in law) it is greatly appreciated and appreciation for assistance is always expressed. 

[Former-Member]